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    March, 2008

    PAMPAINIT

    I've found these 50 Sexy Turn Ons submitted by users and compiled by love editors. 

    Whoaa, you can try one of these to completely turn on your partner, not just your partner, you too can really get some techniques here to be a great turn on.

    This article is also intented for those who are not so romantic (sa mga bato ba) .  Just try, you'll lose nothing after all.

     

    50 Sexy Turn Ons
    What things get you going?
    1.       She will appear around the house semi-naked, like getting dinner and only wear an apron or wear dungarees, but no shirt or bra. -Hamish Muir

    2.       During lovemaking it turns me on when my girl looks me in the eye and tells me she loves me. -Miss Liz
    3.       He lightly runs his hands up and down my back, then gently kisses up my spine. -Megan
    4.       Kisses me softly on my breasts and on my inner thighs! It's just so wonderful! -Diane Elmore
    5.       While kissing me, he gently bites my bottom lip ~Ohhhh Yeah! -B.
    6.       He calls me at work in the middle of the day, unexpectedly, says "I Love You" and hangs up the phone. I absolutely enjoy this, it gets me every time and I can't wait to get home and hold him in my arms. -Joanna
    7.       When he whispers to me, or when he cuddles or touches me without me doing it first. -Erin
    8.       He uses his sensual lips and puts them on every spot of my body. -Shelly
    9.       Sucking on my toes! -Christina
    10.   He will suck my fingertips-one by one as we're watching a movie. We usually don't make it through the movie!!!! -Holly
    11.   He will walk up behind me and surprise me by whispering softly in my ear how much he loves me, and then he will gently kiss my neck. -Aimee
    12.   When she tells me that she wants to make love with me. -Steve Fremgen
    13.   There is definitely one spot on my neck that makes me absolutely crazy. It is the height of sensuality and ecstasy. It creates want, need, and desire. -Alicia
    14.   One of my turn-ons is when my boyfriend runs one finger down the back of my neck. Talk about chills. Oo!!! =) -Tasia
    15.   The way he comes up behind me and pulls me into him in a very close embrace. I can feel his whole body pressing against me, and feel his breath on the nape of my neck and his lips. Mmmmm that's always enough to send me over the edge. -Leigh
    16.   With his hands he goes down on either side of my spine and sends chills down to my toenails. It drives me crazy. -Kathy
    17.   Passionate kiss on the lips. -Jay Trinidad
    18.   When we are at a party, or somewhere where there are a lot of people, and he whispers sexy nothings into my ear! -Nicole
    19.   Biting on my ear gently and breathing heavily with moaning sounds. -Popeye
    20.   When we are kissing, which is a lot! He nibbles my ears and barely breaths my name in my ear as if we were having sex. -Trace'
    21.   When I am naked and he kisses me down my back, bottom, and the backs of my legs. -Tracy
    22.   He gives me a full body massage and then kisses all over my body. -Anonymous
    23.   When he presses me against the wall and looks into my eyes, and then gently holds the back of my neck and kisses me. -Molly
    24.   The one thing my partner does that really turns me on would have to be how he whispers dirty things in my ear when we are having foreplay. -Jennifer
    25.   Kissing the insides of my knees. -Christi
    26.   Nibbles - everywhere!!! -Debby
    27.   All my boyfriend has to do is kiss me. My boyfriend always has his eyes closed when we kiss, but occasionally we keep our eyes open and stare into each other's eyes while we're kissing. We've been together for almost four years and he can still get me ready to go by just kissing me. I think that's more romantic than anything I can think of. -Michele
    28.   It has to be the soft teasing kisses. It makes me sigh just thinking of them. -Mary
    29.   My boyfriend will walk up to me at the strangest times and tell me what he would like to do to me if we were alone. He loves to tell me these thing in places like church! -Marissa
    30.   The one thing that always gets me going is when he bites me on the back of the neck, not as soft as a little nibble but hard enough to leave a mark. I don't know what it is about that, but it just gets my juices flowing. -Charma Lay
    31.   A wonderful kiss that leaves me breathless and wanting more, much more! -Dorothy
    32.   His gentle touches when we are making love. -Bonie
    33.   The thing that make me wild is when my honey starts at my lips and kisses his way to my tummy! I love it when he kisses my tummy so soft and sensually. He licks an area around my belly button then blows on it, it gives me goose bumps all through my body. I LOVE IT! -Lindsay
    34.   He turns me on when he pays every single bit of his attention to me and looks me in the eyes. I know he really does love me, it's a meeting of our souls. -Beth
    35.   When he looks at me with desire in his eyes. His pupils enlarge so much I could drown in them and his face gets so intense like he can barely hold back from jumping on me and making love to me right there. -D K's Dryad
    36.   Silk robe and boxers. -Angel
    37.   I love it when she brushes her breasts over my body... that drives me wild. -Glenn
    38.   When she watches me lovingly while I watch TV. -Chuck
    39.   He puts his arm around my back and holds my face while he kisses me. -Vyunda
    40.   What really turns me on is when my boyfriend runs his tongue across my back and kisses my back to wake me up in the morning. -Maddy
    41.   How as he is touching me, hugging me, kissing me, making love to me - he is totally into it. He's not doing it JUST to make me happy, he's doing it because he really enjoys my body and being with me. What a turn-on!!! -Doryntony
    42.   When she removes her hair band, she leans back her head slightly and shakes her hair out so it is straight. All I can say is wow. It is a great turn on because it looks so quintessentially feminine, and she often does it in places and situations where I cannot react to it (public places, in company, etc.). That must be one of the reasons it such a turn on, I have to wait to react. -Gabriel K.
    43.   Teasing, in any way shape or form. -Cole
    44.   He always rubs my feet after I get out of the bath and that is the most intimate thing you could do for your lover. For us it always leads to really great sex! -Butterfly6960107
    45.   She drives me crazy by gently kissing and blowing on my back. It sends chills up and down my spine. -L
    46.   Surprise me by not wearing underwear when we go out. Being creative in finding ways to let me know adds to the enjoyment. -Nick
    47.   My husbands' sheer enjoyment of our intimacy always makes me happy, comfortable and turns me on! The fact that he is always "up" (pun intended!) for lovemaking and is so comfortable in expressing his pleasure is a driving force in our sexual relationship. -Liss
    48.   My man looks into my eyes and says the most incredible things to me while lovemaking. It's like he can get into my mind and bring me to new heights using only his words and his eyes -P.J.
    49.   Oh My Gosh! I have to say that for me, the one thing that turns me on the most is when he talks to me. Says erotic things, like, lay back and relax honey, or you like that don't you baby. I find that it makes me get into the mood all the more, and the passion heightens as well. -Jen
    50.   Just being around her. I love to watch her dress. -Jack
     
     

    LITTLE WAYS TO SAY I LOVE YOU


    These are from Jennifer Good.  She says showing your affection and emotion can be a simple and effortless act when you incorporate these little ways to say, "I love you!"

    1.       Kiss the inside of your partner's hand

    2.       Leave a love note for your partner to find.

    3.       Blow a kiss.

    4.       Mark designated "Loving Days" on your calendar.

    5.       Arrange for take-out and have an indoor picnic.

    6.       Feed each other.

    7.       Wash your partner's car and leave post-it notes with loving messages for them to find.

    8.       Frame a favorite picture of the two of you and place it next to your bed.

    9.       Share a bottle of wine or champagne.

    10.   Send loving messages on your partner's pager or cell phone.

    11.   Leave a romantic message on your partner's answering machine.

    12.   Slow dance.

    13.   Hold hands.

    14.   Go star-gazing together.

    15.   Dedicate a love song on the radio.

    16.   Cook a meal together.

    17.   Watch T.V. together in the glow of candlelight.

    18.   Meet your partner for lunch.

    19.   Plan a surprise date.

    20.   Kiss passionately... often.

     

    February, 2008

    7 SIGNS YOU MAY HAVE FOUND MR. OR MS. RIGHT

    While browsing yahoo, this article caught my attention.  And indeed, this is somewhat true.  Check if you and your valentine is compatible.   Happy Valentine Everyone!

     
    In happy, successful relationships, both partners seem to be on the same page and to really enjoy life together. The more you have in common with the other person on the things that count, the more successful you are likely to be in the relationship. I call this the "compatibility factor."
    Here are seven forms of compatibility to look for in your valentine.
    1. Personality Compatibility. What's inside the person is the most important factor, because that is going to be there always. Decide what personality types you are most attracted to. Many people enjoy a great sense of humor, for example. Others look for someone with certain spiritual values.
    “Find someone you really like and can have fun with.”   Think about how the two of you will get along down the road. Take your time to get to know someone's true nature, because people often put their best foot forward at first.
     
    2. Chemistry Compatibility. You have to click in the physical department. Being mismatched in this area can lead to resentments and have a long-term effect on your love life together. For example, if one of you believes in PDA (Public Display of Affection) and the other is adamantly against it, that may cause serious problems over time.
     
    3. Communication Compatibility. Are you and your valentine on the same page in terms of communication? See if your conversations flow, and if they are enjoyable for both of you. When you're in love, you may think you have the best conversations, when really one of you is doing all the talking.
    While you are getting to know each other, keep conversations real and fun.
    “Avoid the temptation to talk about past relationships”  it can be a downer and you don't want to turn your date into a support group. Focus on what you enjoy.
     
    4. Friends and Family Compatibility. This comes later, usually after you have been dating for a few months. Do you get along with one another's friends and family, or are there clashes and conflict? If you don't get along with your valentine's inner circle, then the relationship may not work, unless you love the person enough to grin and bear it.
    This does not mean that if your valentine's friends and family are not exactly your cup of tea you should dump him or her. Some you will like and others not. Consider how close they live to you and how often you will need to see them before deciding this is a deal breaker.
     
    5. Health and Nutrition Compatibility. Are you a health food nut or a junk food junkie? Are you a speed-walker or a channel surfer? See if your health-related lifestyles match or not. Although this may seem silly, later in life health becomes more of an issue for people.
     
    6. Financial Compatibility. Money is one of the things couples fight about most often.
    “If you share similar financial goals and means, this can be very helpful.”  Don't be afraid to ask questions about how the person likes to handle their money, especially as you get to know each other well.
    One question you can ask is what your valentine thinks is the best way to manage income and bills. If you agree, then great. If you need to learn more about finances, take a course and read books and articles on Yahoo! Finance to get your financial health on track.
     
    7. Lifestyle Compatibility. Having common interests can really help in a relationship. If you share a passion for something, you can have even more fun together in your free time. You can also expose each other to new interests, which can be exciting. However, if you absolutely hate sports and he has season tickets to every game in town, this may cause a lifestyle clash.
     
    What if you're not compatible?
    Sometimes, there are so many clashes in so many areas that the relationship begins to suffer. What can you do if you and your valentine are not compatible? You can:
     
    1. Take an inventory of your relationship. You can look more in depth into life's domains -- green flags that bring you together or red flags that pull you apart.
     
    2. Accept things as they are. The main idea is to look for workability, not perfection. We have to let some things go or we'll never be happy in any relationship. Enjoy and appreciate each other for who you are!
     
    3. Change and ask for change. If you are both willing to make changes, be specific and set realistic goals about what you are willing to do and how things could improve between you. Keep the lines of communication open.
     
    It is much more effective to choose a compatible partner in the initial stages of dating than it is to "fix" something that is "broken" later. It's hard to move on, especially if you are already in love and committed. In any relationship, you will need to work on things.
     
    Enjoy the journey; I hope that this will give you a start to know if you have indeed found your Mr. or Ms. Right for you this Valentine's Day!
    January, 2008

    FAKE FRIENDS / REAL FRIENDS

      FAKE FRIENDS: Never ask for food.
    REAL FRIENDS: is the reason you have no food.                    

    FAKE FRIENDS: Call your parents Mr / Mrs
    REAL FRIENDS: Call your parents DAD/MOM

    FAKE FRIENDS: bail you out of jail and tell you what you did was wrong
    REAL FRIENDS: Would sit next to you saying 'Dawg ... we screwed up... but that was fun!'

    FAKE FRIENDS: never seen you cry
    REAL FRIENDS: cry wiIMG_0070th you

    FAKE FRIENDS: Borrow your stuff for a few days then give it back
    REAL FRIENDS: keep your stuff so long they forget it's yours

    FAKE FRIENDS: know a few things about you
    REAL FRIENDS: Could write a book about you with direct quotes from you

    FAKE FRIENDS: Will leave you behind if that is what the crowd is doing
    REAL FRIENDS: Will kick the whole crowds butt that left you

    FAKE FRIENDS: Would knock on your front door
    REAL FRIENDS: Walk right in and say 'I'M HOME!'

    FAKE FRIENDS: Are for awhile
    REAL FRIENDS: Are for life

    FAKE FRIENDS: will talk bad to the person who talks bad about you.
    REAL FRIENDS: Will knock the person out that talked bad about you

    If you were killed today, I'm sorry I wouldn't be able to come to your
    funeral, because I'd be in jail for killing the person who did it.

    See the comparison?

    LEFT OVERS IN THIS WORLD

     
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    Daniel and Jasmine

    are sitting alone n the park one night....

    Daniel: I guess we are the left overs n this world
    Jasmine: I think so...

    All of my friends have boyfriends and we are only the 2 persons left in
    this world without any special person
    in our lives

    Daniel: Yup I don't know what to do
    Jasmine: I know! We'll play a game

    Daniel: What game?
    Jasmine : I’ll be your girlfriend for
    30 days and you will be my boyfriend

    Daniel: That's a great plan in fact i
    don't have anything to do for the
    following weeks...

    DAY 1:

    They watch their first movie and they
    both touched in a romantic film

    DAY 4:

    They went to the beach and had a
    picnic...Daniel and Jasmine had their
    quality time together

    DAY 12:

    Daniel invited Jasmine to a circus and
    they rode on a Horror House....Jasmine
    was scared and she touched Daniel's
    hand but she touched someone else's
    hand and they both laughed...

    DAY 15:

    They saw a fortune teller down the road
    and they asked for their future advice
    and the fortune teller
    said: "My darlings, Please don't waste
    the time of your life... spend the
    rest of your time together happily"
    Then tears flow out from the teller's
    eyes

    DAY 20:

    Jasmine invited Daniel to go to the
    hill and they saw a meteor...Jasmine
    mumbled something

    DAY 28:

    They sat on the bus and because of a
    bumpy road Jasmine gave her first kiss
    to Daniel by accident

    DAY 29:

    11:37pm Jasmine and Daniel sat in the
    park where they first decided to play
    this game...

    Danie l: I'm tired Jasmine...Do you
    want any drinks? I'll buy you one..
    I'll just go down the road

    Jasmine: Apple Juice that's all
    Daniel: Wait for me....

    20 mins later... a stranger approached
    Jasmine

    Stranger: Are you a friend of Daniel?
    Jasmine: Why, yes? What happened?

    Stranger: A reckless drunken driver
    ran over Daniel and he is critical in
    the hospital

    11:57 pm

    The doctor went out of the emergency
    room and he handed out an apple juice
    and a letter

    Doctor : We found this in Daniel’s
    pocket Jasmine reads the letter and it
    says:

    Jasmine , This past few days, i
    realized you are a really cute girl
    and i am really falling for you.. Your
    cherished smile you were everything
    when we played this game.....

    Before this game would end... I would
    like you to be my girlfriend for the
    rest of my life... I love you
    Jasmine...
    Jasmine crumples the paper
    and shouted:

    "Daniel! i don't want you to die... I
    love you...
    Remember that night when we saw
    a meteor, I mumbled something... I
    mumbled that I wish we would be
    together forever and never end this
    game. Please don't leave me Daniel....
    I love you! You cannot do this to me!"

    Then the clock strikes 12

    Daniel's heart stop pumping

    THEN IT WAS THE 30TH DAY........


    Always love your loved ones and show
    them how you feel before it is too
    late... You will never know when they
    will be gone from your embrace...If you
    were given a time to bestow petals of
    everlasting compassion and love to
    your loved ones.. Today is the day....
    Love them while they are still here ...

     

    thank you mike for this wonderful story...